I am happy for someone to be in the room watching you. I can arrange a person of either gender or trans.
The service provider who is hired will be paid their personal rates.  If you arrange to bring someone then a rate of 100 euro per hour applies. they are not welcome to touch me in any way.
They are not welcome to lear at me or glare at me or pleasure themselves while looking at me. That person is there to add to your pleasure. Such an odd act would take away from your experience. They are welcome to move around the play area in various positions to see what is happening.  The voyeur is welcome to finish themselves by any means that involved just themselves. If it is appropriate to our session you the client may wish to finish them as long as it does not impede our play or cause danger.

Yes. Love booking appointments with couples.

Recommend 2-4 hr sessions

Rate is plus 50% for second person   

2 hours in dollars $750 > couples rate is $1125 AUD

2 hours in Euro is €500 > €750 euro

When you call to discuss about your partner and yourself you need to have them with you in person. I will only discuss couple when both parties are present. please do not bother to call before you have discussed the thing between you and agreed to call me.

Unfortunately a lot of people wish they had a lover to explore with and maybe overlay their own desire on what she wants. It is easier to know how a session will go when i am speaking to the actual person/ people involved.

If you do not have a girlfriend but would like to have this experience i can arrange a woman to join me.

Either a woman who offers a lesbian sexual experience with me or a woman who will allow you to top her and have me assist. This can be super hot. Hope the idea is inspiring.

The rates of the other woman would apply to her time. These are Dependant on the woman. Usually in Helsinki  200-300 per hour.

Plus travel expenses if she must travel. Sometimes the right girl is a little further than expected.

If travel is involved her first hour and travel expenses paid in advance.

Cash is preferred.

I can send a payment request from my bank for small amounts. This can be paid by credit card. 

You may bank transfer.  Bank locations available: United Kingdom, Australia, FInland.

Payment must be cleared before booking begins. International payments need up to 5 days to clear.   In practice transferwise and Revolut have payments handled the same day.

Finland now has Pikasiirto.com for internal instant bank transfers. PaySafeCard gift vouchers purcahsed inside Finland at any R-Kioski by bank card or credit card.  These vouvhers are annonymous and easy.  Just text a pic or bring to your appointment.  i add these to my account.  10% surcharge as PaySafeCard charge to get the money out. 

E-Gift cards – Instant and annonymous online purchase by credit card E-Gift cards from websites such as:
Finland – https://www.gogift.com/fi-FI/product/100524/SuperGavekortet
Australia – https://www.prezzee.com.au/

anywhere – amazon.de

Immediate email delivery to me at LadyPamela@Hush.Com means an immediate start for our session. 

These commonly used, independent gift card websites means your data is secured by trusted  gateways.  The best part is these gift voucher services have no link to my services, keeping your purpose private.  

PIVO – A Local ‘App’ in finland for instant money sending.
Up to 500 euro.

I do NOT do unsafe = unprotected services
Unsafe sex would be my body fluid combining with your sexual fluids. I do Kiss passionately. ( I am very happy for golden showers = Urine = champagne to be drunk or inserted in your body, for your safety i am regularly checked for STD = sexually transmitted diseases. Urine has a very low viral load and is highly unlikely to cause infection of any kind in the unlikely case of viral presence.)
I do NOT do acts that would cause grievous (severe) bodily harm such that the life of my client was at risk
I do NOT leave clients unattended when restrained (all such services are a fantasy, a role play, not actually risking the life or wellbeing of the client).
I do NOT castrate men (all such suggestions are a fantasy and have no actual reality)
I do NOT CIM (happy to force you to eat your own cum or that of a special guest on request)

I do everything else, and I do it for fun…

I do not charge extras generally.

What we do in our time is free to be decided or flowed into unplanned, or planned.

Some rare specialty services requiring much clean up and time organisation than others are charged with an appropriate fee to service.

I arrange complex services for clients involving multiple people, varied locations, the booking or restaurants, cars, helicopter (once and would love to repeat that), performers, interior designers and flights. All other people are paid deposits or pre paid per their professional service arrangements. For ongoing clients, client who i already have a relationship with, or are involved in ongoing retainer, I do not charge for such arrangements.

For new clients i am paid a deposit for the session time you are booking with me, which is totally transferable if you need to change the date and time. Also you will pay a fee for my time to discuss and arrange.

Yes.

I currently live in Helsinki.
I am available to travel to other cities of Finland for Appointments. I travel further than 1 hour from helsinki is booking time is 3 hours or more. Travel expenses added.

Travel expenses depend on type and location of appointment.
The cost of hire car @ ~ 40 euro a day.
My time to travel to you is 40 euro an hour depending on location and time of day = by agreement/ applicable for short bookings at relatively close range not longer bookings further away.
Flights are @ seasonal costs ~ 80 euro London / Berlin / Amsterdam / Denmark / ~ 100 euro Gothenburg / Paris / Barcelona

Europe is so accessible a Short trip to Paris or longer trip to Malaga in Spain has been easy to arrange.
I am regularly in London, England; Amsterdam, The Netherlands; Copenhagen, Denmark; Gothenburg, Sweden.
If you would like to travel, to have a deeper experience, to find something that is not available in your home town, or not possible in your home town as eyes are always watching, I am happy to arrange.
A play party for just the two of us! or i have some very ‘specialised’ friends in Europe who can come to add a little extra energy, vibe, ideas, or simply the pleasure of someone lovely to look at.
travel expenses and deposit to be paid upfront.

Out-call (I travel to you) service to a venue of your choice hotel, home, office, spa centre, or restaurant is possible.

In Helsinki I have an apartment near MTV in Pasila. I am Happy to take appointments here.

If you require for a specialised session or simply prefer for Aesthetics a particular kind of venue i can arrange.

I have access to a wrestling venue
I have access to a Dungeon venue
I have access to wet room medical room

These are booked depending on availability at an extra charge.

Laws for in call services of local country and state are respected.

Where licensed venues are required they will be provided.

In Victoria Australia- to provide an in-call service is illegal, therefore, you will either provide your home, friends home, hotel or motel,

NO campervans, caravans, panelvans, garages, back seats, parks or gazebos please 😉

I can locate a venue which is licensed and hires rooms for the purpose needed.

Outside Victoria Australia – I provide in-call (you visit me @ )

Usually a serviced executive apartment style of accomodation.

You can be assured of cleanliness and privacy and discretion. I check very carefully for the comfort of my clients how discreet is the access, how is the parking, that reception can be avoided, that there is privacy of what room you enter and how you exit.

Can you come out?
Yes I am available to visit your hotel or your private home.
To visit a hotel i need the room number and the surname the room is booked under.
I need that room booking name because when i call the hotel and ask to be put through to your room, the receptionist will ask for the surname the room is booked under.
I will call your room to confirm you are in that hotel at that room number supplied at that time.

To enter security lifts:
You may ask the concierge to leave a key card in an envelope for Pamela.
On arrival at hotel I ask for the envelope and let myself up to your floor. I knock on your hotel room door.

Alternatively I also ask the concierge to call your room when i arrive for the appointment, again i need your room booking name (surname) and room number.

Feel free to change the name of your room booking if you can think of any ill to could come from a surname given. I have seen very high profile people and cannot find a single risk so far. Sex work is legal in finland and Europe generally, there is no weird american laws here.

I do not meet people in the Lobby. I do not want to be on camera meeting men in lobbies of the city. Nor would you want to be seen meeting (what is then due to lots of visits) a known sex worker.

To visit a private home you will need to send a pic of the address from a letter in the house, or drivers license. feel free to obscure the name.
I only visit venues alone where you are home alone.
If there is a party happening let me know, we can negotiate a meeting in a private way. Perhaps i can bring some friends to add to the vibe!

I do NOT provide natural services of any kind.

All services are protected with a condom or gloves or latex. If you have a latex allergy let me know in advance, I will arrange alternatives.

I do not like to see men who ask for natural services, do Not ask me. Unprotected services including oral are globally considered as a high-risk activity. I would consider a person who asks as someone testing positive for/ carrier of the most common sexually transmitted diseases.

I will not put myself in a position where I am at risk or my clients are at risk.

It is important to let me know if you have a life threatening condition or a condition that might cause you to be in an altered state due to do exercise. For example diabetes, kidney dialysis, heart disease.

If you are overweight or have trouble breathing when bent over or restricted and you want bondage it is good to let me know. In this case we can also find out along the journey and adjust as needs arise.

If you know you suffer from Herpes, or warts and have had an outbreak recently it is good to let me know where.

I need to know, life threatening conditions, movement restricting conditions (overweight or limb injury), body things that cause you to be less flexible or have pain in certain positions, (particularly if those positions are likely given the session requested), communicable disease, current infections.

I do not need to know your fitness condition otherwise. I do not care if you a pretty or conventionally attractive. Every person, every client has something beautiful in them. THis is my focus, not the external body.

I am regularly tested no more than 6 months between scans. This is a blood test internal swab and urine test at a doctor for all sexually transmitted diseases. I have not had a positive for anything yet. I never practice unsafe sex of any kind.

You should come healthy. Do not come with a flu or cough.  Do not come with any kind of discharge or burning seepage from your cock. 

Any broken skin wound or growth that might be a wart or sore near your genitals may result in me declining service.

Say your Name.
Say where you saw my add firstly.
Let me know if we have spoken before.
Tell me breifly, in one or two sentences what service you are looking for.
Let me know if you want to visit me, or me come to your hotel/house.
It is good also to let me know if you have done the kind of service you are asking for previously. Was the outcome great and amazing? could something have been improved, or are you just looking for new flavours of woman.

If i come to you, outcall, then you will need to follow instructions for outcalls.
Hotel name, room number and name hotel room is booked under, be in the hotel so i can call you in that room to confirm it.
if private address to send me a pic of that address from mail, feel free to cover the name.
verifiable phone numbers registered to that address make booking easier.
How long you want to Book.
When you are available for that booking.
If you ready my website.
Ask for my web address if you do not have it.
How far you travel to my location.
If you travel by public transport, bus/train or car.
If you have had a session like the one you are requesting previously.
If you have a journey or sexuality, sensuality, pleasure you would like to explore over time
Anywhere you want the session to go. for example longer lasting erections, deeper connection with your wife, how to please with oral sex, how to have a deeper sub state, how to access trance.

I am available 7 days, my phone is on from ten am till eleven pm in my time zone.  I travel so check where i actually am on my twitter or online adds. (22.00-23.00)

I prefer 4 hours notice as I prefer to look my cutest and have a fabulous plan.

I understand that you finding time for yourself can be tricky.
When you feel compelled, when desire arises, call me and I will do my best to make time.

Longer sessions and sessions needing travel can need longer preparation times. to arrange planes trains cars hotels etc. 

I am always up for an adventure, the more interesting it sounds the more likely i am to drop everything, grab my bag and get moving.

Cash is preferred

Cash or other payment first on arrival.

When meeting in my apartment, after you enter and take off your shoes and put your bag down. I will greet you warmly and that is the moment to give me the money. I will ask at that point for payment, i will check about what service you are wanting, how long you are staying, if you feel you might want to extend time or you have a tight schedule that day. I will ask about anything in our emails or text messages that i am not clear about. This is the moment to tell me if there is a service you are curious about or did not mention previously.

In longer appointments (3+ hours) we will revisit this moment of clarification. For short appointments (under 3 hours) time is preciously short and we need to be efficient as so much of what i do is intensely experiential. For example a role play based session needs a clear moment of beginning so that you may fall into your role. Relaxing that you know what your place is. Three hours is absorbed rapidly when one is having fun.

Getting you a service that is worthwhile in the time you book is high on my priority list.

If meeting in public discreet payment upfront in a quiet manner is required -an envelope for example.

I will excuse myself directly to check the amount and put it away.

You are welcome to send a link to your social media.

It is not necessary however baring yourself as you are promotes trust between us.

Decency and respect is among the highest principles i try to uphold in a session. In this way a session can go deeper and deeper each time. If you see me for who I am, and I see you as your are trust is built. Trust leads to strong psycho emotional states in sessions. Longer deeper orgasms. Orgasms that no longer drain you but energise and uplift and relieve all the issues of daily life.

Social media is not a necessity or a request however i strongly suggest you bring yourself. The honest version of you, putting your fears and miss-givings aside.

See me as a sex therapist, an erotic guide, a creative director for pleasure practices and less as a criminal who might somehow do a bad thing to you.

It saddens me that there are still so many people who try to come as clients who feel they are doing something grossly wrong by seeing a sex worker. That she also is doing something wrong by being a sex worker. That this woman is immoral and untrustworthy and he must protect himself from her.

Like in every profession there are those that would steal and damage others. Yet i feel overall that this attitude costs men who want to clients the kind of experience they long for.

If you do not build a relationship of some kind, share your emotions and experience honestly then the service will remain superficial by your own actions. The woman will remain interchangeable, one to another making little difference on how you perceive the value.

This is not the kind of service i enjoy or offer. I cannot force my clients to go deep but i can create the best conditions to do so.

1 hour plus appointment times so he can relax and let go his fears and daily dramas, a pure and relaxed tone of voice, hypersensitivity to touch, rapid responsiveness to change, intelligent delivery of requests, creative lisence to build continual new representations.

It is great for us to link, you can see what I am doing and where I am I the world. New toys I have discovered and sometimes what I am doing with them.

It is nice to have our social media connected also as we can arrange payment for video chat via Facebook Messenger, Viber, WhatApp  or Telegram. 

It is not essential for me to have your social media or for us to link our twitter accounts.

Sometimes in the case of overseas travel or long sessions I will ask for verification via social media accounts

There are photos on my website and all my online adds.

I sometimes send one pic from my phone.
I post selfies and pics of fun sex toys on my socail media like Twitter @LoveLadyPamela.

I do not want Pics of your Cock or naked body.  I treat you like a whole person, not just a payment or a penis.  I expect you to treat yourself and me the same way.

I accept and respond to Pics/ Photos when you are a paying client. 

I am available for video chat starting at 50euro/95 dollars for 10 mins.

Looking forward to getting to know you in the physical form.

If you would like to introduce yourself you can send me a link to your social media or send me a fully dressed picture of yourself in your introductory email.

Dick pics receive no appointment. Show me a person who can be respectful in a session and out. Not even animals display their dicks first to prospective mates.

Be polite.
Tell me your name.
Tell me where you saw my add.
Tell me what you need from me.
Information or Appointment.
if information is needed specify what information if you know.
If you just want to talk without specifically know what for, let me know your would like to connect in voice/ email.
let me know the preferable Time you are looking for: Do you want 1hr or 3hr appointment?
Do you want a booking today or another day?
What time, today, tomorrow, next week are you thinking?

Do you want a call or text Back or not. It is ver good to let me know espescially if you do NOT want me to call you back?

Have you seen my Website? Do you have the website link or need it?

What is the Service that interested you? Are you clear about what kind of service or do you want to chat about options? If you are clear, tell me in 3-5 words that outline your service.
Long essay/letter style service queries by email please.

Polite: Be polite. Use please and thank-you.

I do not speak Finnish. Take the time to translate your email with Google translate if you struggle with english. Send me Both the english and the Finnish text. This way you know what google translate will tell me you are saying and get the opportunity to adjust your language.

I am happy for phone call, text message or email.

I do not take bookings from private numbers. Unfortunately those who book with private numbers regularly do not turn up so i have had to set this as a rule.

Of course your welcome be anonymous by phone yet send a deposit and then i will of course take a booking. The usual deposit amount of bookings 1-3 hours is 50 euro. Longer bookings by negotiation.

If i do not answer the phone please follow up with a text message or email. I cannot answer if i am in an elevator, with a gentleman friend or in some public areas. Continuing to ring is not going helpful.

I do answer my answering machine so feel free to leave a message and your number.

Of course! Inside or outside my apartment!

My minimum charge of 250 will apply and we can spend time over a pot of tea and see how we get along.

We can start with tea and progress to a seriously hot conversation or get more private.

See outcall protocol for how to proceed with meeting out.

From experience i find that a two hour appointment at massage rates (400 for two hours) is the best way to get to know each other.

We are both stripped of our normal, every-day clothing, we are stripped of our pretences, it becomes clear that this is not a date, or an interview. The meeting is something much more. We can relax and allow pleasure to arise naturally. We can just be at ease. The days tasks are forgotten.

This is the best way to build relationship and trust and know if you want to become more physical or be happy with tea and a massage and comforting words and counsel.